Travel Journal – October 28, 2015
We skip ahead in blog time today, which happens to be a laundry day again 🙁 Not my favorite past time it comes way to often, but has to be done. I decided to get it over early in the morning, as it was an overcast and a cooler day so far. In fact, it is turning out to be the coolest day since Jagger and I landed here in Mesa, Arizona.
It’s hard to believe a short three weeks ago we were still on the road, heading southwest from our last two day stop in Missouri.
The final leg of the trip, coming over the mountain pass through Payson and eventually down Highway 87. Arriving in Mesa felt almost like home since we have been traveling to so many new places this past Summer. The Workhorse now has 39,000 miles on it and has pulled the Coach over 12,000 of those miles.
Home for the Winter
The RV Resort where we are now staying, was our starting point for the East Coast Tour. We left from here on May 27th of this year. The site we are staying in is right across from a rather small, but nice “Dog Park”. I chose this spot last May. It’s on the corner of two streets, so I could watch both streets and make sure it’s “all clear”. Yes it’s crazy, but Jagger still has his issues with Dog’s. When I give him the all clear, we run across to the park and play fast before other friends come to visit.
Within the first week here Jagger and I had met almost everyone on our street along with several others staying elsewhere in the park. Either in passing or on the display of his aggression towards their dog(s).
He has definitely gotten better over the last year and a half, but still if a dog barks at him, it sets him off. Last week we were walking down our street and two dogs, one on each side of the street, starting barking at him, “yikes their teaming up on us Jagger”. I could hardly hold him back. He seems worse here, but I think it’s because we are crowded together much closer and almost everyone has a dog … or two.
A couple of days ago I was visiting with one of my neighbors and asked them if they knew of a public dog park nearby. They told me about one only a couple of miles away. It sounded like a nice one that we should check out.
The First Park Visit
Jagger and I visited the park one afternoon and walked around the Park. It’s a nice, very large facility. My intention is to continually work on socializing Jagger, in order to increase his comfort and confidence. I have my doubts however, that he will be able to meet and freely play with other dogs. Later we approached the Dog Park area and started to walk on the outside of the fence.
There were close to ten larger size dogs running around in the park, just on the other side of the fence. Several saw Jagger and came over to say hi. Unfortunately there were one or two that were aggressively barking and displaying aggressive behavior. Jagger went nuts and I was so sad for him. I told him, “this is hopeless Jagger”. It’s not fare to you or me. When I got home I talked with several family members telling them I didn’t know if I could do this anymore, he is too strong and just isn’t getting better fast enough. I was at an unbelievably low place concerning Jagger after all we had come through together. I can’t even explain my feelings of that night here.
Jagger’s Birthday Party
Last Thursday my daughter had Jagger and I over for dinner to celebrate her dog, Jax’s Birthday and also Jagger’s who turned two on the 14th. Besides doggy ice cream she gave Jagger several present’s, one of which was labeled a “Pet Corrector”. I have tried numerous leashes, collars, training, and lots of time. Nothing has worked completely yet for his aggression and fear. So I read a little on the internet, both good and bad about this product. Some claim this is too much of a negative enforcer, but when you’re at the point you can’t socialize your best friend, what are you going to do? Just like the pinch collar, which I swore I would never use, but it turned out to be the only thing that even allowed us to go on walks, I decided to give it a try.
Return to the ParkFriday afternoon Jagger and I went back to the public dog park. We start out walking around the large park grounds, then we approached the fenced dog park with a dozen or so dogs running around. They come to the fence to check us out and some bark. Jagger goes crazy, I then pull out the small can of compressed air juggling it while trying to hold back a 58 pound dog, with a 200 pound pull. I manage to give it one short burst. Out comes pressurized air and a loud sound, Sssshhhh.
What happened next was more than I ever expected or dreamed. Jagger immediately stopped barking, then turned his head and looked me in the eye. He then came by my side and sat. WOW. It’s a miracle. I was so excited. It was such encouragement after struggling these past months with only a little improvement. My hope soared above the clouds. We can do this Jagger. We continued to walk along the fence about twenty feet away all the way to the end, turned around and came back. Probably a football field length. After many treats I said, “that’s it for today Jagger” let’s go home on a positive note.
More to come on how Jagger’s training progresses, hoping for a good outcome of at least tolerance for Jagger.
Until then, Safe travel…Gary
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